Goal Setting Made Simple

   Do you find yourself falling short of your goals? Here is a story about three 12 year old boys and their determination and creativity in reaching their goal. As adults we often tend to make things more complicated then they have to be while children often can see the simple solutions to their challenges.

Slawek Polinski
Men Of Action

Your Life Is a Reflection of How You See It

  Have you ever been so certain on an issue in your life where you were convinced it was absolutely true, only to have a different point of view introduced that blew that belief right out of the water? Wouldn’t it be great if you can discover a way to dissolve inner conflicts as well as conflicts with others? How would you feel if you discovered a way to break through your fears and into your personal power to be able to achieve your goals and visions?

  This last weekend I was part of a powerful workshop/retreat with NLP master Terry Hickey where I learned some incredible tools to move my life forward as well as the lives of others around me. I highly recommend anyone who is looking for a huge transformation in their life to contact Terry.

 I believe in sharing personal information when I think it might benefit others and that is why I am including in this post my personal notes from Terry’s first day of his workshop. These notes are on how the information I learned will impact my life. This recording was taken while hiking in Tucson, AZ. and so at times I sound out of breath and there is some wind noise as well.

 Enjoy this audio recording and I welcome all comments.

Slawek Polinski
Men of Action

Don’t Take Life And The People In Your Life For Granted

    Saying “I Love You” means so much to the people in our lives and is never, ever said enough. Life is short, so never pass up an opportunity to let the people in your life know you love them. Take the time TODAY to tell them how much they mean to you. Live every day as if it was your last.Merry  Christmas to all!

Slawek Polinski
Men Of Action

 So What Is The Bottom Line On My Money?

   So after reading the first two parts of this article, we know that:

•  The way we relate to money today has much to do with the way our parents and mentors related to money.
•  In my life there was a lot of guilt surrounding money due to the struggles in my parent’s lives.

   What I will cover in this 3rd and final segment to this article is how my past influenced my relationship with money.

 Where’s My Money? – Show Me The Money!

  Looking back on my younger years, I realize that I never was able to save much money. It seemed, I would spend it just as fast as I made it. That really didn’t concern me too much because I was happy I didn’t have to ask my dad for money any longer, for the things I needed. It was very freeing for me to be able to have my own money – guilt free.

  Years would pass and I got married and a couple years later my wife and I had a son, and a few years after that a beautiful daughter. The funny thing is, as I grew older my money issues stayed the same. I worked hard, made a decent living and yet never managed to save or invest much. I always made sure my children got whatever they wanted because I was not going to subject them to the guilt that I had to go through. No Way!

 What is My Money Mindset Now?

  Even though my wife and I managed to save and invest as we matured in life, I never felt we were doing as well as we should and that always puzzled me, until I took the assessment on money at the seminar I was at. I realized it wasn’t how I valued money, and more to do with how I valued myself. The feelings of guilt I had at that young age, asking my dad for money, transpired to me feeling unworthy to having money and that is why as I grew older, I would spend money as fast as I made it.

 How Do You Change Your Money Mindset?

  The first step to any change is awareness, followed by conscious and persistent action. It is not easy to change years of bad habits and it takes much discipline. I suggest investing in yourself with reading, financial coaching and always be aware where you are financially by having a set routine and system for your finances.

 So take a close look at where you are financially and ask yourself; “am I making as much as I could?’ “Am I saving and investing as much as I could?” Am I charging my clients and customers what I am really worth?” You might find the answers to be more about you than the economy, job market, stock market and other external circumstances.

Slawek Polinski

Men of Action

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 Sit Down to a Family Dinner

 A series of reports that were released between 1998 and 2004  from the Archives of Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine found that adolescents who frequently ( more than twice a week) sat down to family meals were less likely to drink alcohol, use tobacco or marijuana than those who did not. These studies also suggest that the same adolescents had better grades, less depression and a higher self esteem than the kids who ate with their families less than twice a week.

  Your Children Need Your Coaching!

  Today it is very common to hear of someone getting  business coaching, relationship coaching and even life coaching. Your children need coaching too! They did not come into this world with instructions with how to handle everyday situations or even their emotions so they look to you for guidance in those areas. They are always watching and learning from you so take the time to sit down and tell them about your day and ask them about theirs and,….share your stories! As children grow older they might not tell you how important your time, your life’s insights mean to them, and don’t let that discourage you because the results will speak for themselves.